מהו חסד? - הרבנית ימימה מזרחי (עם כתוביות בעברית) HD

teach us that Sah every day made and a day when you don't make any at all is not considered a day. Let's learn what is the definition of is written in our par. And when does this she's getting married? Let's learn the definition of first is never measure. Stop measuring. Before you got married, you did to everyone. You gave to her. You talked to her. After you got married, you start measuring. You said this to me, I will say too. You were bad to me, I'll be bad. You invited my sister, I will invite your horrible sister as well. You start being measured. It's called the opposite of why do we

call it? It's from the word gamal camel. When Rieka brings water to camels, it's endless. They drink and drink and drink and she doesn't say, "I'll do this and that's all. I have no power anymore." I come from a Yak family, family. We do things very accurate. When I make supper, it's the very same plates, the egg, the sandwich, the cucumber, the shoo li. There will always be this little boy that will say, "I'm still hungry. Can I have more?" When you are such a yak, you measure everything and you get so nervous. Why do they do it until you put them to sleep? I'm scared. I have no friends at

all or everyone hates me. Why do they do this to us? And the benesai says the husband and the children are like dough. When you don't do this enough to them, they stick to you because they know that all you want is to run away from them. Bye. I remember when I was nursing my babies and I had to go to sh to teach. So I nursed him. No, no, eat, eat. Ima has to go. And then he starts being romantic. They feel it. Husbands and children are like dough. When all you want is to finish, they stick to you. So a little bit more. Don't measure. That's the only way to get rid of them. Give them. Give

them. Give them. Who doesn't measure? this beautiful song. Look at her. What does he do? feminism do not measure. The second secret of is I heard Ra Zimber saying it. It's when you think that this person that you are doing with is low normal. Listen, in each and every one of my shui, I have this woman. Every time it's a different woman, I'm waiting for her here as well. That is not very normal. She will always disturb, always ask stupid questions, always and and you understand that Hashem put her here because that's when you don't understand someone at all at all is bringing water to the

camels. She sees Ellie as a strong man. I'm a three years old girl. Why can't he help me? Because that says when you don't understand why, Hashem tells you, there is one poor woman that comes to my door every week and says, "I want money." I give her money. "Can I have something to eat?" I give her to eat. "Can I have something to drink?" "Yes." And then she says, "Can you give me one of your clothes? Take one of the children." my husband. Don't touch my clothes. And then I understand this is the Hashem brought to me. She could have lived in in Queens. No, no, she lives just near me. And then

I bring her a skirt of mine and she says, "No, no, it's such an old taste. Look." And then I show her, "Mama, I'm a saleswoman at Macy's. I said, "Maybe this." And then I have to see her on the street begging for money with my beautiful Zara jacket. And I know that's the special will always come with those nikim that you do not know what to do with him and we must learn from them. Hashem loves nudnikim. He loves them. He teaches us to be nudnik. Phil there was one woman I'll never forget every time I finished my sh a big big to of woman a woman standing waiting for and she waits there the

last one and I know what she has to say my husband left me I'm in a house that is not mine and I don't have money can you please give me a every week the same the same the same. One week she came to me and I said to her Ken and she said you know my story and I said yes and she said you know I won the lottery and I want to buy a huge house. Wow. And I thought to myself why wasn't her I nice to her she would have given me a room and I want to ask you what to do with all this money. And I thought to myself, you see Yima, when you saw her, you thought yourself as a nudnikit, Hashem listened to

her once, twice, thousand times. And she must have been such a nudniki that he told her take, go away. We must learn from those nudiki. They are such teachers of stop saying once if you do it y if you won't it's okay don't be ludic like the third thing that is called is looking at the face of the person you are talking to all your mercy all your comes up from whom do we Rael, we think that Rael Eu gave up. She was a vatanit. She gave her husband at the evening of her wedding. I know many women that would be happy to do it. And Kazal teaches no she doesn't give up. She's the most stubborn

woman ever. When she meets her katan Yakov, he says to her, "Would you marry me?" And she says, "Yes, be careful. At the night of the wedding, you're going to see two brides because my Abba will try to force you to marry my big sister Leia. So, I tell you a secret and if you ask her and she doesn't know, you'll know it's not me. But then the wedding is coming. She has a beautiful dress and she sees in front of her another color. I knew my sister Leia. I'm so happy that I said those secrets to Yakov. I will never let her take my husband away ever. But then Yakov goes to Lea. He takes the veil

and Rael sees the face the face of her sister so happy, so privileged looking at Yakov. And Rael sees this face and says, "I can't. I can't. My sister will be ashamed. My sister will get older alone at home and I'll be with a husband and children." No way. She takes her off her wedding gown. She takes off the makeup. And Kazal tell us she's crying so much that you cannot see. You see only tears, tears, tears. You see a well of water. And since then, says the Benishai, all Rael is doing is going from one to the other and taking up the veils from your faces and saying to Hashem, "She looks

happy. She looks as if everything is okay. I want to show you her face. She has such hope. She has such pain. Please Shalom. That's what the are saying to us. That's the reason you are not allowed to look at the faces of the kohanim when they bless you on Shabbat because it's the face of Hashem that is looking at your pain. used to tell us that he was a judge in the court and he had to give the verdict what he thinks that should be done with auna. Aguna is a woman that her husband disappeared. No one knows if he dies if he died or if he is alive. So he cannot let her get remarried because

maybe he'll come back suddenly and she'll be married to another man. One day a woman like this came to him. Her husband was in the waring the tank where he was with eight other soldiers was all burned. No one could know if he was burned there or taken to las captured and har sits there and thinks and looks at the book and then he says to her it's okay mazalto you are free now you can get remarried and the other judge gets up and says is maz. You know that the ish in the very same case said to aa you cannot get remarried because we are not sure your husband is really dead and the rau vadia

answered him is right. In such a case, a woman cannot get remarried. But what the ish wrote was when he saw the books and the standard. I look at this woman's face. And when I see a face of a woman, I can tell by her eyes that she is a ala, that she is a widow. According to the sorrow she has on her face, she doesn't even know. I can read her mind. I can read her eyes. You can get remarried again. You are a ala. When you look at someone that talks to you in his eyes, it's so rare today. We don't take to talk to faces. We talk to Facebooks. It's such a huge huge and I want to come to the last

that we are going to do here together. The most beautiful ever is davening praying for someone else. and kazal tell us when you feel that you have a huge huge huge pain on your heart and you can still dav for someone else still say a good word to someone else you give him life so Hashem will give you life you took care of his daughter he'll take care of you a good word we don't even understand the I said of saying a good word. I told you that in our yeshiva there are boys you know with energy on purim. My husband told me we have to invite them for purim. And I said to him I'm so scared

because without drinking alcohol they are wild with all their DHD DVD and now what will happen? And he said we must pur we must. So we invited them. They were in the salon. We women, we were in the kitchen. And suddenly he came. The biggest, the strongest with huge muscles crying like like a little boy holding his phone and telling me, "Araanit, please call my Ema. I want to talk to my Ema." And I say to him, I can't. Your Ema lives in my so far away. It's not the hours that she can answer and I don't have her number here. He sits on the floor all this big guy crying. And in a way we find her

number. We call her and he takes the phone and says, "I love you. I love you. I love you." And then he gives me the phone and says, "Can you please tell my imma that I am a bulto a good boy? Do you know that since I was born, no one ever told my imma that I am a bulto?" We cried so much. And I heard his mother crying from the other side of the ocean. And I always say to my husband, this purim was a key purim. I'm sure that the gates of heaven were opened to this boy's tears and his mother's tears. Do you know how many boys and girls would stay good and learning and daving and sua if only one

good word was said to them. Just count how many good words you say in the house and how many bad words. When when my husband talks to husbands, he says to him, "Before you get out of the house, you turn around and tell her is my wife, you are the best mother in the world." That day you will make pizza with them. You will go to them on the slide. You will go to Disney World. You will hug them and kiss them. One word gives a woman life. Ma yima, are we that stupid? K. You know that always always women come and tell me he doesn't need words. A woman need good words. A woman doesn't need good

words because we have intuition without words. Now he's crazy about me. Children, Aba is nervous. Let's vanish away. But men do not have intuition. So you have to say to them good words and if you want him to say a good word you tell him I want so many times my husband is learning mara and I come to him and say is that beautiful I want you to tell me that it's beautiful and he says you look beautiful and I'm so happy why first of all because he did not see and it's new I'm scared of him that he'll see that I bought another time and Second of all, those words were sid and their perfume now is

in the house. I always say that the word misha in Hebrew have in it the word happiness and the missing letter is pay. All the sim in the misha depends on them pay. So many good words can still be said. Say them. Wake up in the morning like the sun. Daven for them. My husband was Ara, a teacher in a boy's school many many years and he had one such such a boy. And then there was all the parents came and and he wanted to see this f the boy's father. Who is the father of this sadik? And there enters a woman. Tired woman. And he asks her who are you? And she says I'm his mother. Is he okay? Where

is his abba? And she says his abba is not very normal. is a beggar in the hotel. How did you have the merit of having such a boy? And she says, "I don't know. I clean houses and offices, but how do you have such a boy?" And she said, "Every morning I wake up very very early and I read all the book of Tahili and then I go and wake him up. My one and only son. after I daven for him. These are good words as well. Even if you don't say it to them, you say it to him. When you have distress with one of your boys or daughters, the most horrible thing to do is to say, "Hashem, I have such pain and

sorrow that she's not married yet." Ah, she causes you sorrow. She makes you sad. You must stand and say, "I love her so much. She makes me so happy. I know how she hides her sadness only to make me happy." Please make her happy. Wow, you are saying such good words of your daughter. I will help you to make her happy. To make someone happy with words. Wow. to make someone happy with words of wow to have a for someone else when you yourself is in distress you are in distress wow we'll do it right now together just before the kala of our dearest kana I want you to do what the angels used to do

in beta mikdash when all the people of Israel came to Beta Mikdash on Sukkot Shabot. They saw the angels above the Aonesh putting their wings like this and blessing them. Haravadia Ysef used to tell us this to do this as a Fort to be answered. It was always before Yum Kipur. We were thousands of women in and he told us each and every woman to put her fingers on the head of the one that sits next to her. Let's do it. All English lectures are available online at hidaboot.com.