למה היהודים כל כך אובססיבים סביב פרטים קטנטנים? HD

you cannot have any contact with Orthodox Jews and fail to notice their obsession with tiny itsy-bitsy little detail that's not too strong a word and we know what time Shabbos started this week it's gonna come out to be like 6 31 and 18 seconds on this side of heart know if I'm the other side it's like 19 seconds did you figure out that these Orthodox Jews put on their right shooting for their left shoe and they tie their left shoe before their right shoe except if you're a girl in which case there's two different approaches when they cut their fingernails there's an order for cutting their

fingernails yeah this finger this finger this finger this finger this finger this we did this to did this to give this very basic and on certain days that's better and that is what you'll find in any Jewish law to investigate they are all incredibly detailed oriented you can't help but think they lost at some place do you think that's really what God cares about I've been to a couple counseling for about 30 years I've never once had a couple come to me whose relationship was in trouble because they disagreed over some major issue I'm a liberal she's conservative I want out sophistical II

those sorts of instances are minuscule the vast majority people who come to me have relationships they're breaking up over things that are so small so peak you need that if you heard about it you would say these people are not well now of course they always say it represents something bigger but the reality is it's tiny things all relationships crash or skyrocket based on attention to tiny itsy-bitsy little details I found this consistently over hundreds of couples and I will tell you why if somebody notices the big things that doesn't mean that they actually care about the other person

because how can you miss the big things if I remember it's our 31st anniversary that doesn't mean that I'm in love with comma because how can you miss the 31st anniversary it's an elephant in the middle of the room if I remember that 31 years ago last week met her for the first time and I remember when I said where do you want to go she said let's go for fish and remember at the restaurant when the waiter brought the menu she said no no I don't need to look at I'll just I'll take salmon I remember that night she told me she doesn't like chocolate she likes carob and I remember that night she

told me that she loves flowers and her favorite flower roses but not red roses she likes yellow roses and she likes a lot of that white proof stuff they put in the top and she likes a lavender ribbon now my 31st anniversary let me go out and sit down the mater doesn't bring the menus he just right away brought the salmon and then he came back a few minutes later with the 31 yellow roses with a lot of the white poof stuff and a lavender ribbon if I do that that means I love her because otherwise why would I remember the lavender ribbon